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said he doesn't see a future with us anymore- crushed.?
MY BF and I are in our late 30’s and have had a rocky road , but with much love. We have been fighting the last few weeks and tonight we talked. He said he is happy, he is happy in our home and he loves me but he is having serious doubts. We had talked about getting engaged this year and he said he no longer wants to be on that timeline, that he now is thinking seriously about kids and he does not want to close that door ( i’m older than him and do not have much time left), he said he does not think I am the one he wants to have kids with and he is questioning if we are right for each other. He said he is very confused and doesn’t want to lose me if im the love of his life, but something is just not right with us he thinks and he just doesnt know but he loves me so much. This has turned my world upside down. It was a very calm conversation, but I am devastated. I don’t know what to do. Has anyone been here? It seems futile to even stay together with him feeling this way. Any advice so I dont go off the deep end. I dont know if I should tell him to leave until he figures it out or what to do.
big time
marshmellow dance | Feb 06, 2010
Hi Kerry,
It seems to me you have answered your own question.
It’s time to change and find someone who wants you for you.
It is going to be harsh, but from what you say, this relationship has lit the blue touch paper and is going to explode.
Good luck pet, I feel for you, but it’s time for a change.
Take care.
Ethan2390 | Feb 06, 2010
I have been down that road myself and I actually have a kick a** shirt from that road trip. I know this is absolutely killing you right now but you will be fine. He just wants you to sit there and wait on him. He wants you to be his comfort zone. My suggestion is to go ahead and try your best to get most of the crying out of the way in front of him. I know easier typed than done. But you are going to have to move on. He doesn’t know what he wants and you do. More than likely he is thinking the grass is greener on the other side and it might seem like it from a distance. Even if he does make it on the other side the first thought in his mind will be "wow" I’ve never seen any grass greener then this. But that will not last long. But as far as yourself, when you hurt don’t let him know too much or he knows he has you and he will not worry about you leaving him. But that is what you sincerely need to do slowly but surely is to leave. You have to pick yourself back up off the floor and treat yourself like you are suppose to be treated. Yes, you will still hurt but not as bad as each day passes, you will still cry, but I promise it gets better each day. That is what I did I lived day by day until I quit hurting he played the joke on himself and he is the one that has to live with it everyday of his life. Not you! Smile! Someone truly loves you somewhere on this crazy planet but don’t go looking for it b/c it will come. P.S. It will really piss him off and hurt his feelings when you still have some emotion but he is expecting a lot of emotion so hold it back somewhat. Be strong! Be thankful for what you do have. Like my mother always told me it could be a lot worse than what it is. GO HAVE FUN! Best of Luck!
Bonnie | Feb 06, 2010
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